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Hide and Seek is Over! The REAL YOU can come out now!

I know it has been some time since you last heard from me. Let me explain. I have been working hard on helping women level up in their businesses and personal lives, but I had to step back and re-evaluate why I started on this journey of helping women to discover their best. Something was missing! I was resolved to figure out what it was …my purpose was not to only help women make more money and have the careers they have always wanted…it was and is much deeper than that! What was it?!? Then I started to notice a pattern emerging with each client. Do you know what all of them wanted more than anything??

”I just want to be ME!’ They all said the same thing! I have worked with women with PhDs to GEDs, urban, suburban, and rural dwellers even international from every shade and hue under the sun. They all said they wanted to be filter, mask, screen, or cover…just themselves! That might sound strange to someone that is comfortable in their own skin and loves everything about themselves, but for most women, they are wearing a mask. Afraid of what people would think if they REALLY knew them. They constantly worry about the judgments and expectations of others so much that life can be unbearable because that is a heavy burden! They look over their shoulder and ask, ‘Are they watching how much I eat, what I am wearing, how I look, what I drive, what are they saying about me?’…the list goes on and on. Do they REALLY like me? The question is a simple one, but it haunts so many of us, to the point we will try to make ourselves smaller so we don’t outshine ‘them’. We minimize our accomplishments, don’t speak up when we should, shrink back when we should be shining brilliantly! We don’t want to rock the boat. We want to play nice so that we are liked, like a bright, pretty object? Aren’t we more than that? Aren’t YOU more than that?  

Take a moment, right now…yes, now…and think about 5 things that you love about yourself. Absolutely adore about YOU! You go girl! Write them down on a post-it. Look at the post-it note throughout the day and tell yourself you are enough! You are Enough!

You deserve to be loved, wanted, protected, and desired. You are bea-YOU-tiful and worthy of having good things based on your own merit, not based on your family name, the neighborhood you live, the car you drive, or the people you keep company with on a daily basis. You are beautiful and unique. I didn’t always feel that way because of years of abuse, low self-esteem, and homelessness. I had to learn to love myself…TRULY love myself and embrace my individuality with the fierceness of a momma bear. With that same fierceness I am helping women like you and me to recognize how wonderful they are and help them remove the mask so they can come out of hiding and live authentically! This is ME…and I would love to meet the REAL you! Would you like to learn how to be more confident and live authentically?  Remove the mask, come out of hiding…I can’t wait to meet you!


Would you like to schedule some time for a chat? Give me 20 minutes and I’ll share tips for a more confident you! Schedule now HERE.


Adrian Jefferson Chofor is a professional with over 25 years in the publishing, academia, and healthcare industries. She is also a former expatriate having lived in Italy, Spain, and Germany where she conducted workshops and seminars for executives and professionals. Adrian is an entrepreneur and a certified life coach with a passion for helping others through public speaking, training and coaching.

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