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Loving the Skin I am In!

Am I Loving What I See?

Do you want to be comfortable in your own skin?

What is it about you that is unique…good or bad? Confidence, beauty, and happiness is not about perfection. Decide today that the person you are today is the only person you want to be. Your only mission is the best version of yourself.

So many women are focused on what they would like to change about themselves because we have been taught that we are not good enough. Think about the first thing you do when you see your reflection in a mirror. Most of us try to adjust something…fix our hair, adjust our clothes, touch-up our makeup, or something else that we think is ‘out of place’. Ladies, I am not saying in any way that we should stop caring about our appearance. Matter of fact, one of the confidence boosting strategies (and a workshop) that I offer to women focuses on our appearance and standing out from the crowd with our own unique style. The point I am making has to do with how we feel about ourselves. I encourage women to look at the mirror and smile back at their reflection. When you smile, you are sending signals to your subconscious that you are good and accepted. You are OK! Then when you adjust your hair, makeup, clothes, etc. you are doing so with self-love and acceptance rather a critical or negative outlook.

When you learn self-acceptance you can step into the spotlight and take center stage. You have a leading role in your life, you are not one of the supporting cast, because this is your life, your story, your journey!

Today, embrace the person you are, inside and out. Each situation you are faced with allows you to give your best self and that is enough for you. Be proud of you!

Self-Reflection Questions:

  1. How do I respond to those who try to make me feel dissatisfied with my life or myself?
  2. How do I handle feelings of insecurity?
  3. Which areas of my life would I like to improve?

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Adrian Jefferson Chofor, the 'Confidence Coach' and Owner/Founder of Aspire2Inspire Transformational Practice LLC is the creator of the Aspire Life programs helping women learn to be confident and build self-esteem to reveal their true selves and live authentically. She helps women 'remove the mask' by learning self-acceptance, purpose, and loving their true selves to help them become the women they have always wanted to be!

Adrian is an international inspirational speaker, certified professional coach, and a top recommended professional quoted on several major networks; ABC, NBC, CBS and FOX. She is a published author in several books, including her #1 International Bestselling book 'Aspire to Your Greatness!' chronicling her own life from abused child, troubled teen, homelessness to world traveler and successful businesswoman. The powerful book was nominated for an Indie Author Legacy Award (IALA). Adrian is the host of the 'Aspire to Authenticity' show scheduled to debut on the RHG network April 22, 2019. It will be aired weekly on every Monday at noon PST time.

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