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Breaking the Loop and Becoming Confident to Be Successful!
What confidence boils down to really, is the ability to stop trying to win approval and to instead be happy with what you’re doing and who you are. It means being able to be assertive, dominant and commanding when necessary but it also means being friendly, outgoing and charming. In fact, showing your weaknesses, admitting your flaws and smiling at people all make you seem incredibly confident.
Why? Because it shows you’re secure in who you are and not afraid to be different. It shows that you are so confident in yourself that you’re not afraid that others will tease you or that you’ll make a fool of yourself. You are untouchable and so there is no threat to you when you put yourself out there, smile and chat openly!
Reaching this point is the hard part. To do that, you need to stop feeling insecure or like you are worth less than everyone else, which might be how you’re feeling now.
The key? To stop comparing yourself. To stop worrying about other people. And to instead just focus on the things that are important to you, that matter to you and that you’re passionate about.
Choose ONE skill to focus on that matters to you. Focus on specific aspects of your life. Then CHOOSE to get fulfillment from that.
Define who you are and don’t let others define you and that way, you will become highly confident and you’ll care less what others say or think about you. The irony? This makes them naturally respect you much more.
When you focus on things you care about, you come alive. You become more engaging and charismatic and passionate and this resonates with other people. Because after all, enthusiasm is even more contagious than low confidence and it certainly trumps it to a large degree.
Find your passion, find what matters to you, and focus on yourself. Let others compete and worry. Focus on doing what you need to be happy and be successful!
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