Being Overly Concerned About Offending Others
Waiting To Be Noticed
Staying In Your Safety Zone
Using Minimizing Words To Describe Yourself or Your Work
Acquiescing to Bullies
Offering a Limp Handshake
Being Financially Insecure
Doing The Work Of Others
Needing To Be Liked
Acting Like A Man To Be Respected
Holding Your Tongue When You Need to Speak Up
Failure to Maintain Eye Contact
Permitting Others Mistakes To Inconvenience You
And Many More….
I have observed hundreds of women sabotage their careers and relationships. They unknowingly undermine their credibility by engaging in self-defeating behaviors. Their lack of confidence makes them appear as if they are little girls seeking acceptance and permission from others. From early childhood, these women were taught their ultimate success is contingent to acting in certain stereotypical ways, such as being polite, soft-spoken, compliant, and relationship-oriented. These ideas are reinforced through media, family, and social messages.
Women lose confidence in their abilities, talents, and skills. They learn that acting like a ‘good girl’ is less painful than assuming behaviors more appropriate for adult, capable women (yet, totally acceptable for boys and men).
Confidence takes root in childhood but also can be internalized in adulthood, through experience, hard work or practice. It requires really paying attention to the small wins and not being so quick to overlook, downplay, dismiss and diminish your accomplishments.
Based on observations, I’ve also noticed women tend to vocalize their lack of confidence, at times in self-deprecating ways, more often than our male colleagues. I’ve come to believe that often, we do this just to seek validation and reassurance.
Some 63% of women enter the workforce with the confidence that they can rise to senior management, compared with 75% of men, according to a 2016 survey of 8,400 adults by Bain & Co. and LinkedIn. By mid-career, only 57% of women still feel that way, compared with 66% of men, says Julie Coffman, a Bain partner and lead author of the study. Other research links women’s lack of confidence to being encouraged during childhood to be compliant and agreeable and to strive for perfection, rather than to compete and take risks.
Starting a new business requires a clear vision and the confidence to relentlessly pursue your dreams. How does an entrepreneur stay confident when she is ready to give up?
Negotiating is a skill anyone can learn, but completely useless if the negotiator lacks self-confidence. This skill is a must if you want to climb the corporate ladder or be a successful entrepreneur
There is more to being a leader than being a #ladyboss. Leaders inspire and motivate their teams. They earn their team's respect. Do you have the self-confidence to get their respect?
All successful CEOs, executives, team leaders, and entrepreneurs know how critical strategic networking is to their success. Self-confidence is crucial to become an expert at networking
You can be a CEO in the office but feel like a door mat in your home. Self-confidence will help you find your voice and regain your strength to take back control of your life
Don’t let the crisis paralyze you with fear and self-doubt. You have ‘greatness within you, it just needs to be tapped into’. You can overcome the crisis by tapping into your talents, strengths, and gifts and unleashing your greatness. Nothing is impossible..with faith, study, and perseverance…you can say all is possible. You don’t have to go on this journey alone. You will have trusted expert and navigator help you arrive at UNSTOPPABLE CONFIDENCE!
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SELF ACCEPTANCE & SELF AWARENESS – the base of self-confidence and good leadership
ACTION PLAN with SMART GOALS – strategic customized road map to success
WEALTH MINDSET – explore your relationship with money
BULLETPROOF UNSTOPPABLE CONFIDENCE – maintain unstoppable confidence
PROGRAM WRAP UP & CELEBRATION
Q&A – exit interviews/feedback
•Appreciate the significance of your body language & questioning skills in communication
•Understand the importance of goal setting with SMART goals to be UNSTOPPABLE
•Explain the different types of negative thinking and the strategies to overcome the habit
•Effectively make use of techniques for understanding your TRUE worth
•Use positive self talk to build courage to be FEARLESS
•Know how to make an UNFORGETTABLE first impression and be the STAR!
•Make regular use of positive communications expressed as “I-Messages”
•Use proven methods for getting positive results in difficult situations
•Identify strengths and weaknesses that are you holding you back from UNLIMITED confidence
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