Who Are You Really Hiding From!

“One of the greatest regrets in life is being what others would want you to be, rather than being yourself”

– Shannon Adler

Today, many women hide behind masks for a number of reasons. If could be due to feelings of insecurity or they feel unsure of their power. They feel unloved or uncertain they will be liked or accepted if they reveal their true personalities and feelings.

The biggest reason women wear masks is because they fear the world is going to find out that they are a fraud. They really don’t belong. They are simply ‘posers’. The other major reason is because they fear when they reveal their true identities, the world will simply shrug off the big ‘reveal’ as insignificant and simply ignore them.

We must admit, it takes courage to remove the mask and reveal our true personality. Have you considered removing you mask and if so, what will gain by it?

The mask you are wearing is not a protection! It is robbing you from happiness! Let me tell you why…

Hello There, Gorgeous!

I’m Adrian Jefferson Chofor, a member of the keep it real generation and devotee of the authenticity movement and the Confidence Coach and Creator of The Aspire Life™, a system of programs helping women build self-confidence, live authentically, and love themselves for their TRUE selves. 

Let’s be clear, I have had my own challenges of becoming a confident woman, successful coach and entrepreneur.  I had to learn how to speak up at business meetings, in the workplace and executives in the C-level suite. Sometimes, that meant speaking truth to power and we know how difficult that can be. Just look at the #metoo movement for evidence. I had to learn how to be myself in the office, in unfamiliar situations, and meeting people who were considered ‘important’. I learned how to become comfortable in my own skin at ‘all’ times. This was an amazing feat considering I used to be a shy, tall lanky girl that suffered years of abuse and refused to speak up and tried to be the biggest wallflower.  But, this wallflower recognized later as a young woman that she was a wildflower; beautiful and resilient!

My journey has lead me here to helping women like you learn to be confident and comfortable in their own skin. I’m a dedicated and passionate Personal Transformation Strategist. I help women navigate the growth and transformation process of  planting, nurturing, blossoming, and blooming into the women they are supposed to be, their best (beautiful, extraordinary) selves!  I am also  an Award-winning International Inspirational Speaker and Empowerment Leader.  I share my own personal story with life lessons  in my #1 International Bestselling book, ‘Aspire to your Greatness!’, nominated  for the Author of the Year; Leadership Award  by the Indie Authors Legacy Awards (IALA). I’m the proud owner and founder of Aspire2Inspire Transformational Practice, LLC and Aspire2Inspire Media Productions  which produces the Aspire to Authentic Living show which I serve as host and producer. The show airs every Monday at noon PST. 

I have been working with women just like YOU to learn:

  • Self-Acceptance and Eliminating a Negative Self-Image (Learn how to become a Strong, Confident, Beautiful Woman)
  • Break Free from Crippling Self-Doubts (I’ll Try, Maybe It Won’t Work, What will THEY say…no more!)
  • Love their Whole SELF: physical, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual (brain fog, PMS, stretch marks…everything!) 
  • Living Authentically (BEING REAL) and Cultivating Their Originality (BEING YOU-nique)

Schedule a session at no charge [no hidden fees!]  and discover what is really bothering you.

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Get Confidence Now! Programs are part of the Aspire Life programs that help women successfully (re-)gain their confidence  and get the courage they need to stop trying to please everyone and just be themselves. These programs are for the professional women trying to LEVEL UP! in their career or start a business and for women that want to ‘remove the mask’ of being  inauthentic and let their true personality emerge. Programs:



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Adrian's Online Publications

Adrian has written several empowerment books and co-written books that are Amazon bestsellers. She also wrote a #1 International Bestseller that is inspiring women all over the world to overcome obstacles and reach their full potential. *All of the books are available for download.


*some books required payment prior to download (Amazon)


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Join the hundreds of other women worldwide inspired and transformed by the powerful  #1 International Bestselling book, ‘Aspire to Your Greatness‘! This book shares the journey of Adrian Jefferson Chofor as she overcomes years of child abuse, teenage homelessness, crippling low self-esteem to becoming an empowering motivational speaker and personal transformation strategist creating confidence building programs helping women break free from years of self-neglect, hopelessness, bitterness, and self-inflicted pain.

She shares the powerful lessons she learned from childhood to adulthood when she finally allowed herself to be loved, learned self-acceptance, and the healing power of forgiveness. Her transparency and candidness allows the reader to feel as if they are with her every step of the journey. The deeply insightful lessons she imparts in each chapter gives the reader actionable steps and tips to help them on their own journey! Her story has touched many lives and is guaranteed to impact you! The book was nominated for the Author of the Year; Leadership award by the Indie Authors Legacy Awards (IALA). Get your copy of this book and see how it will change your life. Here is a preview:


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